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Sex On The Edge - Boldly Go Where No Man Has Gone Before
by Kristy Clark
Women aren't always
looking for a kiss and a cuddle. Sometimes all they want is
unadulterated raw sex....with you in charge. No, it's nobodys fault;
it just kinda happens. When girls have been knocking boots for a
while with the same guy, it's easy to fall into a rut. One way to
break out of that dull scenario with the one you love is to take the
romance out of sex. There's lovemaking and then there's fucking.
Sometimes we want the latter. So to be a man, direct the scene,
command the ship, throw us down, and suprise us with a gamely good
time. Your sexual enthusiasm and confidence makes us feel wanted,
and we promise to respond with eagerbeaver enthusiasm.
But playing a little
forceful is seriously tricky ground. It's easy to overdo it with the
animal sex; divorces have happened over less. Rule of thumb; Be
intriguingly forceful without being scary. That boils down to upping
the intensity but not cranking it to the max. We'll show you how to
pace your movements to make our Tarzan-Jane fantasies a reality.
Prepare for an unforgettable finale, maybe even a pulse pounding
sequel.
BE
SPONTANEOUS
We ladies need
assurance that you want us. Nothing says "Baby, I find you so
irresistible, I can barely contain myself" better than taking us
"right here, right now". Think of it as paying an unspoken, lust
charged compliment to us. Knowing the very site of us jump starts
your hormones makes us feel great. Says Annie, 27: "I was washing
dishes when my guy came up behind me and undid my pants, then went
down on me in the kitchen. I was, like, screw the dishes - all I
want to do is screw him!"
Cop the attitude, take
instant action, and we'll respond in kind. Don't get all PC on us.
("Can I touch you here?") And don't wait until you've brushed your
teeth to initiate the action. "During dinner Tom barked "Get in bed,
and don't think about doing anything to me tonight," recalls Rhonda,
27. "I was so turned on an curious. I did what he said. Next thing,
he's holding my arms down, getting down to business. It was hot!" In
short, if we have to hold your hand or can predict the ending, we'd
probably rather watch the Weather Channel.
BE
UNPREDICTABLE
How bored would you get
if you ate the same thing every day--even if it were Buffalo Wings
and beer? It's the same with sex for us. Whipping up something
unexpected keeps sex appetizing, restoring the same sense of of
sexual discovery we had at the start. Remember how we howled that
time you tried the tongue technique on us? It wasn't just your
prowess that brought us to an incredible climax. It was also the
excitement of "Where's he going with this?" "I came back from the
gym, and waiting for me in the tub, shower running, was my
boyfriend, "says Cameron,25. "That was the best shower of my life."
Or try it out when there's a sense of urgency. "Just as I was
running out the door to go to work, my boyfriend hiked up my skirt
and pulled down my panties, and we had a quickie." confesses Jane,
26. "When he was done, he put my thong back on and told me to go to
work like that so I could feel him all day. It made me feel like I
was his".
BE
A TALKER
You want to know why we
find Hollywood studs so friggin' hot? It's not neccessarily their
looks. Case in point: pushing 40 Pillsbury Doughboy Russell Crowe.
What drives us over the edge is when a guy tell us what he wants -
and how. It makes us less self-conscious, and thus it's easier to us
to enjoy ourselves.
Taking on the attitude
ie easy: Sound off. We want to know you're loving it and want us to
love it too. To hone your badboy persona, breathe against our ear,
grunt when you pick us up, and pant while thrusting. As for dirty
talk, let it rip. Girls dig it. We're just inherently shy about it,
so make your talk part Romeo, part porno till we get rolling. Start
with the "You're so beautiful, I love being inside of you" variety.
Tell us in a slow deep voice how horny we make you and how we're
"the best you've ever had, really." If this get us going, take it up
a notch. Says Donna, 29: "There's nothing better than a guy who says
"I just want you so bad, I can't wait", except one who says "I want
to fuck you so bad I can't stand it." If we're really going, call us
your dirty little girl. This stuff can be catchy. Who knows? Before
long you could find yourself sleeping with the depraved girl you've
been fantasizing about.
BE
MASTERFUL
Seems like your
girlfriend always wants to tell you what to do? Not so with sex.
When you call the shots, it makes us feel like you're taking care of
us. Once you've got us in the act, take the reins, but don't bully
us. Push us up against a wall. Press your body against ours. Hold
our hands back and let us feel your strength. Press your lips firmly
against ours and dig in with the your tongue. Says Karen, 32: "One
night my boyfriend pulled my panties to one side and we had sex
against a door. Now I beg him to do the 'panty thing'."
To keep from crossing
the crazy line, make eye contact so we feel like we're part of the
action - and so you can watch our reaction. "If my boyfriend holds
me down with my hands over my head," says Erin,28, "he's always
looking at me to see how I respond. Then he'll shoot my a sly
smile." Pay attention to how our bodies respond. Then he'll shoot my
a sly smile." Pay attention to how our bodies respond. If we
struggle, stiffen up, or pull away, ease up on the Mickey Rourke
vibe. Turn us over on all fours and we resist just a little? Don't
force us. And always listen carefully so you'll know if our ooh's
become ow's.
As with all good
fantasies, reality is bound to set in, and you'll snap out of it.
But the good news: These rough-rider fantasies are always there for
you to revisit. And we'll be waiting.
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